Asking for Forgiveness

No one is perfect. That means, at some point (and probably often) we will have to ask someone for forgiveness. So how do you do it? Is it as simple as saying, "I'm sorry"? I don't think so...

Here is a short little formula that you could/should use when apologizing:

1. Call the person by their name - everyone like to hear their name and this creates a personalized touch
2. Say you're sorry - this is where you apologize for whatever you did. Make sure you say what you did so it is very clear. See James 5:16
3. Ask forgiveness - tell the person you offended that you would like for them to forgive you for the thing you said you are sorry for. See Ephesians 4:32
4. Action step - Just saying your sorry is NOT enough. Asking for forgiveness is better, but telling them what you want to do so you don't repeat this offense is GREAT! See 1 John 3:18 - (if you are truly sorry, you will show it with your actions)

The Bible places a high value on relationships and this is the best way to restore a relationship after it has been damaged. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." So who is everyone? Your parents, friends, teachers, coaches, co-workers, teammates, school-mates, etc.

Let's look at an example: "Dad, I am really sorry that I talked back to you earlier today. I want to ask you to forgive me and next time I will try to do a better job of listening to you and not just wanting my way."

Do you see how easy this is!?!? The ONLY reason why someone would not follow this outline is because they have too much pride. Pride is the sin that got Satan kicked out of heaven... that is NOT the example that I want to follow! The opposite of PRIDE is HUMILITY... Jesus was humble... we should be too!